The single watcher / group watcher distinction limited and
complicated watcher coalescing more than necessary. Reworked:
Each server watcher is represented by a WatchBroadcast, each
client "Watcher" attaches to some WatchBroadcast. WatchBroadcasts
hold all WatchBroadcast instances for a range. WatchRanges holds
all WatchBroadcasts for the proxy.
WatchProxyStreams represent a grpc watch stream between the proxy and
a client. When a client requests a new watcher through its grpc stream,
the ProxyStream will allocate a Watcher and WatchRanges assigns it to
some WatchBroadcast based on its range.
Coalescing is done by WatchBroadcasts when it receives an update
notification from a WatchBroadcast.
Supports leader failure detection so watches on a bad member
can migrate to other members. Coincidentally, Fixes#6303.
Couldn't find watcher group from rid on server stream close, leading to
the watcher group sending on a closed channel.
Also got rid of send closing the watcher stream if the buffer is full,
this could lead to a send after close while broadcasting to all receivers.
Instead, if a send times out then the server stream is canceled.
Fixes#6739